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	   	53 year old TS/TV/TG (Transgender) in Ithaca, New York 
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I'd like to find a gal to hang out with and have a reasonably meaningful relationship together. 

Or the same with a guy who's keen on sponsoring an extreme makeover! "Who pays the piper, calls the tune..."

My main interests are in computers and music, mostly varieties of rock and roll -- usually, the louder the better!
My Ideal Person: A gal who's cute, dresses well, loves music, and is both fun and smart. (She doesn't have to be book-smart! Just plain smart is good enough...)  And ditto that for a guy, though the style issue matters less to me then.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: Red Letter, Blue Öyster Cult, Badfinger, Steely Dan, Angry Samoans

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: Somebody pays for my surgeries, etc., etc.    And then... etc.    But... that's not so much a "fantasy" as something I want to happen :)...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Latex, Massage, I am never cross when I dress!

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: Mariska Veres, the singer for the band Shocking Blue.    When she sang Venus, she wasn't faking the passion. Nor with Mighty Joe, Can You Hear My Love Buzz?, Send Me A Postcard, Long and Winding Road, or to top 'em all: Never Marry A Railroad Man.   Besides being a great singer, she was gorgeous.    RIP. She is missed.   There was also a guy I really wanted to seduce, a nice guy who was good looking and a world-class musician... problem is, I'd rather BE seduced--or something less subtle!

Have you ever had cybersex?: No way. I only want skin on skin.

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Gender:  	TS/TV/TG (Transgender)	
Birthdate:  	May 2, 1956
(53 years old)	
Sexual Orientation:  	Bisexual	
Lives in:  	¬	Ithaca, New York 
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Hometown:	Little Rock, Arkansas	
Relocate?:  	No	
Marital Status:  	Divorced	
Height:  	5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm	
Body Type:  	Average	
Smoking:  	I'm a heavy smoker	
Drinking:  	I don't drink at all	
Drugs:  	I don't use drugs	
Education:  	Some grad school	
Occupation:  	Software Developer	
Race:  	Caucasian	
Religion:  	Buddhist/Taoist	
Have Children:  	Yes. We do not live together.	
Want Children:  	No	
Male Endowment:  	Average/Thick	
Circumcised:  	Yes	
Bra Size:  	38 / 85 D	
Speaks:  	English, Latin	
Hair Color:  	Black	
Hair Length :  	Long	
Eye Color :  	Brown	
Glasses or Contacts :  	Either
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Sexual Activities
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Have you ever had cybersex?
No way. I only want skin on skin.	

What kind of night life do you enjoy?
Live music.	

How big of a role does sex play in your life?
I love sex, but if I don't have a partner, I just masturbate	

What types of sex activities do you regularly enjoy?
The pleasurable kind!	

How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?
... you get from GIVING? Me? Halloween Rocky marriagee. 1!	

What are your thoughts on anal sex?
I was persuaded that it can be enjoyable for both participants	

What's the largest number of people you've shared a sexual encounter with in one session?
"Nite City" played Austin in 1977: Mass ecstasy with 40 people!	

Sexual Interests
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What types of sexual activities turn you on?
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Latex, Massage, I am never cross when I dress!	

What types of sexual activities are OFF LIMITS to you?
Sadomasochism, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Candle Wax, Slave/Master, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Pain, Coprophilia/Scat	

What types of new sexual experiences would you like to explore?
Getting involved with someone who appreciates my femininity, and would sponsor some enhancements... for our mutual pleasure! 

Note that the D cup size I listed above is purely aspirational at this point. But... Silicone implants are available again!... and I do have a GID diagnosis! 

My gratitude would be... bound in great measure.

(I'm a transgendered lesbian... but you know what guys say about lesbians: they just haven't met the right man yet!)	

Besides the obvious, what areas of your body do you consider erogenous zones?
Ears, Lips, Neck, Hands/Fingers, Chest, Belly/Abs, Back, Butt, Inner thigh, Knees, Calves, Feet/Toes, Mind (Intelligence), Hair, Hips	

Have you ever had erotic pictures or video taken of you?
I've taken and been in a few naughty pictures.	

Do you enjoy talking dirty during sex?
I really get into it sometimes.	

Does size really matter to you?
No, it doesn't matter at all.	

Fantasies
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Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!
Somebody pays for my surgeries, etc., etc. 

And then... etc. 

But... that's not so much a "fantasy" as something I want to happen :)...	

What role-playing scenes do you fantasize about?
Cop/Prisoner, Doctor/Nurse/Patient, Hooker/John, Stranger/Stranger, Boss/Secretary, Student/Teacher, Casting Couch, Mistress/Mistress or Mistress/Slave	

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room, At a nightclub	

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?
Mariska Veres, the singer for the band Shocking Blue. 

When she sang Venus, she wasn't faking the passion. Nor with Mighty Joe, Can You Hear My Love Buzz?, Send Me A Postcard, Long and Winding Road, or to top 'em all: Never Marry A Railroad Man. 

Besides being a great singer, she was gorgeous. 

RIP. She is missed. 

There was also a guy I really wanted to seduce, a nice guy who was good looking and a world-class musician... problem is, I'd rather BE seduced--or something less subtle!	

Tell us about your favorite sexual encounter.
That's hard to say. 

An inadvertent case of Tantric sex? Achieving without trying, the Taoist way? It happened, repeatedly, but it wasn't necessarily a good thing in the long run, at least for my marriage! 

OTOH, there was this time in T-Burg...	

Is it important to fulfill your fantasies?
It can be nice. 

But some fantasies ought to stay that way.	

Have you helped someone else fulfill a fantasy? What was it?
Yup. 

A gentle-person does not spell out details...	

How important is it for your partner to fantasize?
I think if you don't, there's probably something wrong with you!	

What is the most recent fantasy you fulfilled? Was it good?
Having four men come over and paint my house! 

j/k. I thought Exit To Eden was a funny movie, even though when Rosie had David Bowie on her show (his wife's also in the movie) she claimed to be embarrassed by it. 

Some people are easily embarrased, no?	

Sexual Accessories
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What toys have you used in sex play?
Dildos/Vibrators, Whatever your partner likes/wants	

How do you play with food during sex?
By, uh, eating it?	

What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?
Ones that are sexy. Right?	

Dreams & Goals
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Where would you like to live?
At home.	

What would be your dream house?
My current house, in better shape!	

What's your dream job?
Job? What means, job? 

I enjoy my vocation, which is software development, and my avocation, which is music.	

If you could do anything what would it be?
Help my daughter achieve happiness and success -- on her own terms!	

How do you handle set backs to your dreams?
I enjoy whine with the cheese.	

How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?
It's crucial, if you want a long term relationship.

The most insightful thing I ever heard was a statement a female friend made to me when my marriage was dissipating: "A relationship has to be founded on shared values."

Shared dreams are a part of that: like the lyric in the song by Free, "Wishing Well", 

"And I know what you're wishin' for... Love and a peaceful world..." 

But the lyric starts out: 

"You've always got Something to hide... Something you just can't tell! And the only time, that you're satisfied... Is with your feet... in the Wishing Well!"	

Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized.
Not enough to satisfy me!	

What is your ideal fantasy "date"?
Love at first sight, mutual ravishment, a pleasant dinner afterwards. 

And then we fall... asleeep. Maybe after a movie, OK?	

What kind of relationship(s) do you want?
Long term, Short term, Activity pals	

Where do you see yourself in a few years?
"I heard the news/Got the same old blues/Again!"

Really, I have no idea. Life does not conform to our plans.	

Physical Stuff
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What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the day?
Casual	

What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the night?
Vampy. Not Alucard vampy; Barbara Stanwyck vampy!	

Describe your most attractive feature.
Probably my hair. It's still quite nice, though not as absolutely drop-dead thick, long, and beautiful as it was when I was younger. 

You'll have to judge for yourself what my most attractive features are from my photo albums... "de gustibus non est disputandum".	

What body part do you first notice when you meet a person?
Face	

What do you consider the most attractive feature when looking for a sexual partner?
All of the above!	

How much does physical appearance matter to you in a partner?
It matters to me, but it's the whole package that counts.	

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?
Physical attraction, Same/Similar fetishes, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Chemistry, Personality, Honesty, Intelligence, +++ Honesty	

How important is physical attraction to you in a sexual relationship?
Very, when it comes to women. 

With a guy, I'm more concerned about whether he finds me attractive, and demonstrates his affection...	

What do you wear for underwear?
Thong	

What do you think about tattoos?
So long as it's tasteful & artistic	

What do you think about piercings?
I have pierced ears, which is plenty enough for me	

Do you exercise? How?
Inadequately, I'm afraid.	

What is your sexual health status?
STD free (tested regularly)	

What STDs are you comfortable with your partner having?
STD free (tested regularly), STD free (untested/not recently tested)	

Entertainment, Sports & Hobbies
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What type of television shows do you enjoy watching?
I hardly watch TV.	

What are your favorite television shows?
The Prisoner, Monty Python's Flying Circus, The Colbert Report, Futurama, early Saturday Night Live, and The Avengers.

(Emma Peel was my first flame!)	

What kind of movies do you enjoy the most?
Drama, Comedy, Action, Independent, Cult Classics, Cops and Robbers, Westerns, Sci-Fi, Foreign, Suspense/Thriller, I like a whole lotta movies... except for horror movies!	

What are your favorite movies?
Mystery Men, Rashomon, Dark City, Unforgiven, Snatch, Chinatown, "Fast, Cheap and Out of Control, " and Monty Python and the Holy Grail! 

And Total Recall. "Am I dreaming?" "If you are, kiss me before you wake up!"	

What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?
Rock 'n Roll, Classic Rock, Folk Rock, Women Who Rock, Punk, Heavy Metal, Reggae, Alternative/Indie, Classical, I don't listen to classical music much, but some of it is excell	

What does listening to music do for you?
It's inspiring, It's great for dancing, It gives me time to sing, It's how I express myself	

What are your favorite musicians or bands?
Red Letter, Blue Öyster Cult, Badfinger, Steely Dan, Angry Samoans	

What are 5 albums you can't live without?
Red Letter "True North", Warrant "Ultraphobic", Def Leppard "Hysteria", Procol Harum "Grand Hotel", and "Back From Samoa".	

Tell us what you're reading now.
"Mariposa", by Greg Bear. 

I wanted a sequel to Bear's brilliant SF novels "Queen of Angels" and "/" (Slant). 

I got a prequel! Fantastic! Hey, Mary Choy is five years old! 

And Hellsing. Again. Because it's, uh, weirdly compelling.	

What are your favorite authors or books?
Philip K. Dick "Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?", The Name of The Rose	

What types of activities interest you?
Computer programming, Surfing the internet, Playing music, Cooking, Reading, Writing poetry, Shopping!	

What do you like to do in your free time?
Mostly do music... though I haven't written a song in quite a while. 

OK, somebody out there needs to step up and provide me with the inspiration to top "Where Will I Get Off Tonight?"

It could be done. Anything's better than "Cold Rain"! (Except maybe the "Motel Zero". Yeah, that's worse, fer sure.)	

What are your favorite sports/teams?
I love(d) playing baseball. 

I'm not much of a spectator when it comes to sports. Football is OK to watch, but not as interesting as,	

Work & Living Environment
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How much time does your job take up in your life?
Unknown	

Describe what you do for a living.
Software Development. 

"Just 'coz I don't pray... That don't mean that I ain't forgiven! Just 'coz I'm alive... Don't mean that I'm making a livin'!'	

How often are you online?
Most of the day.	

What kind of place do you live in?
A "rural ranch house".	

What is your current dating situation?
I'm divorced	

What types of relationships have you had in the past? Share your story with us!
Passionate? Confusing? SCARY? 

I fell in love with an Ithaca->Manhattan transplant, and in love with Ithaca also when visiting for a month at her parent's summer home (Cornell -> Columbia, Ithaca Academy of Dance -> School of American Ballet, right?). She went to Harvard, I went to UT Austin, how could it last? 

I was married for 14 years. It was an OK relationship, until the bitter, bitter end. My daughter is swell, so the relationship was not a total loss... 

Then I had a couple of brief relationships, followed by an ultra-serious relationship that lasted a couple of years: SCARY! 

That was quite a while back...	

What is your family life like?
I don't see much of my daughter, who's going to university in Manhattan... but it looks like maybe she'll be staying with me this summer. 

Which would be swell, she's a live wire, polite, charming, and über-cute, though she does sleep late.	

How can Adult FriendFinder help you change your life?
I dunno! 

You tell me! 

Update: Would you believe... that your first email might really change your life? 

I'll quote from an email I sent about a week ago: "I must be trippin', 'coz reality cannot be this good!"	

Outlook on Life
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What words best describe your personality?
Intelligent, Honest, Funny, Loyal, Sensitive, Open-minded, Compassionate, Passionate, Creative, I'm not sarcastic: I'm an ironist!	

What qualities do you look for in a mate?
Intelligent, Honest, Funny, Loyal, Sensitive, Open-minded, Compassionate, Passionate, Caring, Creative, Keen sense of irony	

What factors are most important to you when looking for someone?
Looks, Religion, Political views, Personality, Sex skills, Openness	

What animal best describes your personality?
The Hare Who Has Lost His Spectacles,	

Tell us what things in life are most important to you.
Beauth, Fruity, and Treedom! 

Now wait a minute... 

Death is my bread, and danger my butter. - oh, no, danger's my bread, and death is my butter. No, no, wait. Danger's my bread, death - no, death is - no, I'm sorry. Death is my - death and danger are my various breads and various butters. 

But seriously now: 

Truth, Beauty, Compassion, Honor, and Courage.	

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